Ep 004: Marriages of #MomTok: The Secret Lives of Mormon Wives Part 2

In this episode of Reality Testing Podcast, we explore the hidden challenges and intense relationships in Secret Lives of Mormon Wives. This series reveals complex themes of religious trauma, repressed sexuality, and shifting power dynamics within a patriarchal community. Through our psychological lens, we examine how these characters navigate life, love, and identity in a society that values control.

Here’s what you can expect in this episode:

Show Overview

For those new to Secret Lives of Mormon Wives, here’s a quick summary: The show follows a group of women with different levels of commitment to the LDS church. Each cast member has ties to the church, but they all experience intense challenges. From teen pregnancies to federal prison sentences, these stories show a unique side of #MomTok in the Mormon community.

Notable Characters and Stories

• Mikayla
  At only 16, Mikayla got pregnant and married a 21-year-old. We question why this relationship raised no red flags and discuss the intense cultural pressure she faces.
• Demi and Bret Engemann
  Demi first met her now-husband Bret when she was 9, and he was 25. Bret, previously married to RHOSLC’s Angie Harrington, was even submitted for The Bachelorette! We analyze Demi and Bret’s unusual relationship and the power dynamics at play.
• Jenn and Zac
  In this show, wives like Jenn are often breadwinners, changing the traditional power structure. Yet, in their marriage, controlling behaviors emerge. We examine how these dynamics reflect broader patriarchal beliefs.
• Repressed Sexuality
  Sexuality is a complicated issue in Secret Lives of Mormon Wives. Whitney’s husband is spotted on Tinder, and there are hints of secret swinging among the cast. Layla’s story of early marriage, divorce, and unfulfilled intimacy shows the consequences of repressed sexuality in these relationships.
• Mayci’s Story
  Mayci talks about her struggles with early pregnancy and her tragic loss when her boyfriend died in a car accident. Her experience highlights the lack of sex education in the community and the difficulties of navigating relationships.

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Episode Segments

• Reality Testing: Who Needs a Dose of Reality?
  • Megan thinks Zac could benefit from a reality check.
  • Quincee highlights Dakota, who also appears disconnected from reality.
• The Intake: First Impressions of Religious Themes in Secret Lives of Mormon Wives
  • Megan explores identity development within a controlling religious structure.
  • Quincee discusses the youth of the cast and their journeys toward self-discovery.
• Dying to Discuss
  • Megan shares insights on parasocial relationships with #MomTok personalities.
  • Quincee dives into the show’s 20-episode season extension and what more it could reveal.

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